Chimamanda Adichie Shares The Most Exciting And The Most Terrifying Thing About Being A New Mom

Chimamanda Adichie was on The Guardian’s Culture web chat one day ago to answer questions sent in by readers. She answered many question on her books, writing, thoughts on different issues and of course motherhood.

One reader asked, ”What excites you the most about being a new mom? What terrifies you the most about being a mom?”, and below is Chimamanda Adichie’s beautiful response.

Most exciting – a new and unique kind of love has come into my life, glorious and joyful and encompassing and full of discovery.

Most terrifying – the anxiety-filled desire to protect her from everything and the terror-filled sense that I cannot.

Franca Asemota Sentenced To 22 Years In Prison For Trafficking Girls From Nigeria To Europe For Prostitution

In March 2015, Franca Asemota, was arrested by the EFCC (Economic and Financial Crimes Commission) on the suspicion of money laundering offenses.

It was found that she is wanted in the UK by the National Crime Agency of the UK on charges of child trafficking

She is accused of organizing a thick network that transports young girls, especially teenagers, from villages in Nigeria and sending them to Europe via London. The innocent kids are lured by promises of a better life, jobs and education but are forced to sell their bodies for money when they get into these countries

The judge ordered that Franca Asemota be extradited to the United Kingdom to face trial for the charges filed against her.

The 38-year-old has now been convicted on 3rd August at Isleworth Crown Court of eight counts of conspiracy to traffic persons for sexual exploitation, two counts of trafficking persons outside of the UK for sexual exploitation and two counts of assisting unlawful immigration.

Evidence showed that she facilitated the trafficking of around 40 people, mainly young girls, between August 2011 and May 2012.

She has been sentenced to 22 years in prison.

SOURCE: Womanng

PERSONAL STORIES“My Colleagues Call Me Woman Wrapper Because I Support My Wife” – Michael

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In many African societies, a woman is expected to be solely responsible for taking care of the children and domestic chores. This expectation places a lot of burden on women, especially new mums who need support to be able to take care of themselves and the new born.

As the world celebrates breastfeeding, one father has spoken out on how he support his wife in spite of what people say.

Unicef  Nigeria shared this inspiring story of Micheal. Read below:

#‎WeAreStillHere‬! Michael is a truck driver with a construction firm in Abuja. A proud father of three, Michael is a proud winner of the prize of model father and defender of exclusive breastfeeding at a baby show in Abuja. Michael supports his wife with various house chores to give her opportunity to exclusively breastfeed their baby. “My colleagues call me “woman wrapper” because I support my wife so she can exclusively breastfeed our baby, but I don’t care. I know the benefits of exclusive breastfeeding,” he said. Support your wife today to exclusively breastfeed, it is a healthy start in life for your baby. ‪#‎breastfeeding‬

Inspiring Story Of Rosmary Amponsah, A Welding Student Who Is Following Her Passion Against What People Say

In many African societies, there are some certain occupations that a woman is not expected to venture into. When they do, they are often faced with all sorts of stigma and discrimination, but thankfully many women are overcoming these barriers!

Unicef Ghana shared this inspiring story of Rosmary Amponsah, a welding student who is following her passion against what people say. Read below:

My mother said I should become a policewoman, a nurse or a doctor.

She said those are the jobs that people respect. When I left high school, there was very little to do. I worked at a filling station selling petrol but had very little fulfillment. I always asked myself, what if this company collapses or the owner decides to sack me?

My father brought me here to learn welding. My mother hated the idea and always compares me with my sister who went into nursing training. But my dad supports me. Everybody says it’s a man’s job. In my class, there are fifteen boys and I was the first girl to join them.

I walk a very long distance to get to school and each time, I get someone who passes a negative comment. Like the last time, one man saw me and said if I continue with this job I can’t get married and it would be difficult to give birth.

I think they are trying to pull me down but I’m not interested.

Rosmary Amponsah, Welding & Fabrication student, Bechem (BA/R).

A Nigerian Birmingham City University student, Anu Yusuf, aged 26, graduated with a first class in law from Birmingham City University alongside hundreds of her fellow students on Wednesday 27 July, and got married to 27-year-old Joseph Kolawole Ola marry at Birmingham Register Office on the same day.

They met four years ago in Gombe while doing their NYSC, but they have not been able to get married as a result of her coming to study in the UK.

Her husband often joked that he would whisk her away after my graduation to marry her because he can no longer wait, and it became reality as they married on her graduation day.

This also turned out to be advantageous for their family members because they could attend the wedding and the graduation.

The wedding started in the morning with a civil ceremony at Birmingham Register Office, followed by blessing at Anu’s church. The service finished at 1pm with guests served with takeaways meals as some of them headed to the graduation ceremony.

Anu changed from her white wedding dress to her gown and cap for the graduation ceremony.

In an interview, Anu said “It was so special to have my family and friends present for not one, but two of the most significant milestones in my life, and being able to share it with them all is something that I will treasure forever.”

In addition to her studies, Anu also did part time jobs. She worked in the International Office as a marketing and communications assistant until two days to her wedding and graduation.

Anu plans to do a PhD in law, while her husband Ola is studying in Bradford at LIFE Church College.

Nigeria: Meltdown in Nigeria Affecting Neighbouring Countries, Says Benin President

The economic meltdown in Nigeria is affecting neighbouring countries, the President of Benin Republic, Patrice Talon, has said.

Talon who is in Nigeria on a one-day visit spoke at a joint press briefing between him and his host, President Muhammadu Buhari.

He lamented that the economic downturn in Nigeria was gradually affecting his country and other nations in the West African sub region.

Describing Nigeria as the engine room of West Africa, Talon challenged Nigeria to begin to explore its non-oil potentials to boost the country's revenue profile and its standing as a big brother in Africa.

Talon said he was looking forward to reactivating the existing bilateral relationship between Benin and Nigeria especially in the areas of trade relations, economy, energy development and education.

He pledged to partner Nigeria in dealing with the problem of illicit trade affecting both countries.

Earlier, Buhari has said his administration was considering the possibility of using modern technology to transform gas into liquid form for easy export, especially to the West- African sub-region.

The president also said Nigeria is making efforts to ensure that the West African Gas Pipeline project becomes more efficient to stabilise the energy sectors across the West African sub-region.

Buhari said the government was doing everything possible to stabilise the gas pipelines to enhance electricity supply in Benin and other West African sub-region.

"The economy part of (our discussion) it is mainly energy, making sure that the West African Gas pipeline is made much more efficient. This government is making all the efforts it can to stabilise the situation because the resources are there.

"The world knows that Nigeria has plenty of gas, what we need to do is to stabilise the environment so that this gas can be regularly pumped to the sub-region through the infrastructure already in place.

"Also, the Nigerian energy mixed is not doing too badly as gas can now be converted into liquid form gas, the technology is now available, to transfers to Benin Republic to run their power stations.

"The sad and long standing problem is the question of using Benin as a transit camp to bring a lot of goods into Nigeria.

"Under ECOWAS agreement, all we have to do is to remind ourselves about our respective national commitments that other than reall ECOWAS-originated commodities, we should not allow it. If we get strict on that, I think Nigerian industries would benefit from ECOWAS agreements," he said.

SOURCE: Allafrica

How Nigerians in the UK are earning up to £11,000 p/mth as Digital Project Management & Business Analysis Professionals

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